Posts: 16 | Joined: 31st Aug 06
hi there, since before my lil one was born, my other half has felt like i have neglected him, after Joss was born, it was the same story, i'll admit that in the beginning, glen did help out during the day, but i was the one who got up during the night to comfort or feed him, i wasn't particulary bothered about it because both myself and the baby woke around the same time every night anyway,( it was the same when i was pregnant, same times every night, baby would wake up and kick about!!)i decided from the beginning that i was going to bottle feed Joss so glen could be involved in that way. After a while glen didn't wake up at all when i got up to feed, when before he did. Joss is 11 months nearly and things are still the same, no help what so ever!! Alone with all that, he doesnt let me go out, i have to get his approval for everything. I managed to get out for an evening, to a staff reunion at my old place of work, we had an arguement before i left, i came home to one too!!! Im seriously thinking of leaving, but i don't know what to do, i don't want to cause more arguements!! Any ideas???