Posts: 118 | Joined: 19th Apr 06
Firstly, have fun!! We didnt have sex til my daughter was six weeks, not cos i didnt want it but because i was still bleeding and idnt want the mess!! I had an episiotomy and popped the top stitches after a week, didnt realise, thought discomfort was from healing id been warned about and when got checked was too late for more!! v v painful. However, all healed well and our foirst time was completely pain free, although i was a bit nervous, bit like being a virgin again! Hubby was nervous too as he didnt want to hurt me!! Just make sure he goes gentle and that you both want it not just that hes an impatient man!! and do be careful!!