post-natal relationships

Forum:
Postnatal relationships

post-natal relationships

No time for friends and family?

With a new baby in your life, it might feel like there’s little time for anyone else. Partners, grandparents and friends often take a backseat, so why not use this forum to share tips and advice and see how other mums have made it work?

Join our forums now

NEW Community Feedback and Suggestions forum

We’re looking to make some improvements to our Community, but before we do, we’d love to hear from you to understand what you like, dislike or wish you could have from our Community. Whatever your opinion or suggestion, just go to Feedback and Suggestions to have your say to help us make it even better.

Back to topics

Resentful

Miss_Poppy_ 11 years ago
Posts: 76 | Joined: 3rd Nov 06
I thought I'd opt for the mums already forum even tho I qualify for both! I'm 20 wks with my 3rd child and I found out on Saturday that I'm expecting my 3rd boy. Before I had the children I only ever saw myself with a girl and even had a name planned. We are definately not going for a 4th (it'll be my 3rd c section). But I dunno how I feel. One minute I'm happy as long as all is well, I've had 2 m/cs aswell but the next I'm absolutely gutted. My husband is being very good saying he understands all the stuff I wanted to do with a girl, the shopping, first bra blah blah, all the stuff I never did with my own mum. I'm in turmoil cos I feel so guilty for feeling like this. I really really hoped this one was a girl and feel dreadful that I am disappointed. Any advice??
 
Heart this
Report This

Get in touch on the go

iphone app

Looking for something else?