Posts: 76 | Joined: 3rd Nov 06
I thought I'd opt for the mums already forum even tho I qualify for both! I'm 20 wks with my 3rd child and I found out on Saturday that I'm expecting my 3rd boy. Before I had the children I only ever saw myself with a girl and even had a name planned. We are definately not going for a 4th (it'll be my 3rd c section). But I dunno how I feel. One minute I'm happy as long as all is well, I've had 2 m/cs aswell but the next I'm absolutely gutted. My husband is being very good saying he understands all the stuff I wanted to do with a girl, the shopping, first bra blah blah, all the stuff I never did with my own mum. I'm in turmoil cos I feel so guilty for feeling like this. I really really hoped this one was a girl and feel dreadful that I am disappointed. Any advice??