Posts: 57 | Joined: 25th May 06
my partner has a child of 5 years and i have one that is 8 years old.
i am having problems the same as you and also not sure that i want him there for the birth as he has already seen that before.
i can just imagine it that he will say something about his ex and the birth and it would be all over for me.
No matter what any one tells you only you know if he will compair you which is would think not.
I expect like my partner that he loves you very much and will be over whelmed when you have the baby.
You could ask him how he feels. I am sure that he would reasure you in all ways possible.